The effects of Empathic connections on our daily lives

What does it mean to be emphatic?

Empathy is the concept of the transfer of energy telepathically from one person to another. Empathy transpires using strong telepathic channels and/ or cords of attachments. Empathy allows you to feel the emotions and thoughts of another person. Empathy can make a person feel things randomly within their body that they normally would not feel under similar circumstance. Emphatic attacks can have physiological symptoms such as:  physical internal pains , ailments,  drastic changes of temperatures in the body, sudden heartburn, and feelings of nausea. Emphatic attacks can also bring about emotional symptoms such as: feeling bursts of anger, excessive stress for no reason, anxiety, and increase in hyperactivity. Empathy doesn’t only transfer bad energy but can also transfer good energy from one person to another.

Many empathic people are able to sense what their loved ones or close friends are thinking before the person reveals it to them. For example, an empathic person can sense that their friend is going to text or call them regarding a specific problem they are having. They can know what their friend was going to share with them before the friend even made any contact. Although powerful, empathy can feel very draining and overwhelming for people who have no power or do not know yet how to control it. An emphatic transfer of energy can make the receiver do things they wouldn’t normally do, such as argue, fight, or show signs of anger towards others without prior cause for confrontation, causing an internal battle within the person’s own body. This can also be described as having two different personalities within one body. Emphatic people often struggle when being attacked by energy vampires. Energy vampires describes those individuals who practice deep thinking and obsess over someone sending them constant bad energy, hence sucking the life out of the person being targeted weather they know they are doing it or not.

How does empathy work?

Empathy transfers energy using cords of attachments instantaneously  allowing a person to feel different things at that exact moment. The transfer of energy can occur through different portals of a person’s body and/ or energetic Chakras. Where the energy attack are being felt on a person or how it makes the person react or feel depends on the sender of the energy and their connection to the receiver. In most cases, the transfer of energies occurs with people who the person has a strong connection or bond with such as a family member, a past or current lover, or a close friend. The person sending the energy is often one who had spend a lot of time with receiver and had developed a strong energetic connection to them.  One belief is that empathy is existent as a tool to help control people from making decisions such as walking away from life situations and relationships without facing adequate consequences. As you may see in your own daily life, very often people walk away from problematic relationships or complicated friendships thinking they can just escape their problems, not realizing that the cords of attachments they forged along the way and the energy connecting them to person and/ or situation still exists.

Most people cannot differentiate between their own feelings/ emotions or physiological pains and those of the person who is attacking them energetically. In cases where the energetic attacks are happening on a regular basis the receiver can adapt to the attacks and accept it as part of their well being. Experiencing moments such as struggling with emotional regulation, anxiety, and feelings of unexplained depression can all be signs of an emphatic attack taking place at that very moment. The attacks can be momentary or last as long as hours or even days depending on the sender’s motive and energetic powers.

How it affects our daily lives and people around us?

One important distinction to make when contemplating whether an Emphatic attack is occurring is understanding the difference between emphatic attacked and black magic curses.  Where Black magic takes place abruptly in forms of “accidents” such as car crashes, tripping over something or injuring yourself badly, an Emphatic attack presents itself in a more natural way with physiological symptoms such as headaches, body aches, emotional drain, anxiety and stress (to inquire more information about Black magic removal services please feel free to contact me for a free consultation). Emphatic attacks also present themselves in forms of jealousy and hatred towards someone or something the person has no prior negative feelings towards.  People with strong empathic capabilities can be intense to a point where they obsessively loop with intensive destructive thoughts and behavior that can end up destroying a person’s life.

How to protect ourselves and prevent emphatic draining?

The first step in protecting yourself from empathic attacks is trying pinpoint who the sender of the energy might be and what brought about the negative thoughts towards you. Some reasons why someone might be sending you emphatic energy might be:

  • – Date of an important anniversary from a past relationship
  • – Person experiencing feeling of regret or guilt following a relationship ending
  • – Birthday or important life event where you used to be part of but no longer are
  • – A person strongly missing another person who is no longer in their life
  • – Family member experiencing some sort of trauma or illness and subconsciously sending negative energy to other family members
  • – Employer or co-worker having negative thoughts about you due to jealousy, resentment or hatred

There can be many other reasons why someone might be sending you negative energy via an empathic attack.  A good practice following an attack is to write down how you feel when you are not under attack so you can differentiate when you are yourself verses when you are under attack and feel like you are possessing someone else’s energy. There are many forms of meditation that can help you protect yourself against emphatic attacks (Please contact me to inquire more information about this topic and receive a 10 minute free consultation) . Placing a pillow or a large thick object to cover the area of your body being attacked while it’s occurring can sometimes help decrease the intensity of the symptoms. Programed Crystals can also be used to protect the person from empathic attacks. To assure your Auric field and Chakras are fully balanced and vibrating properly a spiritual healer is recommended to assess where the energy is coming from and how to properly stop it by cutting the cords of attachments as well as providing energy healing services. I offer fully programed bracelets and necklaces with crystals that  are used to protect the person wearing it from being a victim of an emphatic attack.

The benefits of Saging

The practice of using sage for energy clearing and spiritual work has been around for thousands of years. Early civilizations are known to have been using the mystical powers of sage to rid of evil spirits and clear energies in and around their dwellings and places of worship. Many cultures and ethnic groups nowadays utilize the powers of the sage for different spiritual cleansing rituals. When burned, the scent and smoke of the sage releases smoke into the air which can change the composition of the air surrounding it. This change in the air has many positive effects, including changes in mood, release of stress, and release of negative energy in and around the peron’s dwelling.

When to sage? 

The benefits of saging can be utilized in different ways. The need to sage might vary from situation to situation depending on the circumstances surrounding each situation. The following is a list of situations in which saging should be completed:

  • – Prior to moving in to a new house
  • – Prior to moving into or opening a new business location
  • – Prior to attending or following a big party or gathering
  • – Following a departure of a loved one
  • – In an event a person in your household or immediate family is chronically ill
  • – Following a hard separation or breakup
  • – When being attacked with black magic
  • – Increased tension
  • – Stressful events
  • – Being around envious people

How to sage?

The sage should be burned at the tip releasing steady streams of smoke that fills the air with the aroma of the sage. White sage is the best sage to use for cleansing rituals. As with any other herb, sage is highly flammable and extreme caution should be used when handling the sage when hot. The sage should be placed in an aluminum pan or a skillet the entire time to avoid self injury or unintentional burning of carpets and/ or furniture. Saging around people should be completed in circular motion on top of the person’s head or around and under their body. The sage should never come in direct contact with a person’s body. The smoke and scent from the sage should cover the entire area. The person completing the saging ritual should voice their intentions for saging loud as they are walking around focusing on all the positive things they are hoping to gain. After the saging ritual has been completed, all people who have been around the sage should change out of their clothes and take a shower to remove the aroma (along with all the negativity) away from them. All windows should be opened following the ritual to allow the negative energy to leave the premises and allow the flow of positive energy to enter.

Where to sage? 

Saging should always be completed in the area surrounding the person and/ or situation where the negative energy or vibration is most present. In new homes or offices the person completing the saging ritual should cover every room and corner in the space (top, bottom, stairs, closets, bathrooms) . When saging to clear energy around a specific person the sage should cover the person’s personal belongings and personal space.

During saging the person performing the cleansing ritual should have in mind that they are clearing path for all the negative energy to escape. When lighting the sage the positive energy around a person’s aura spikes and shines, thus bringing positive energy around themselves and everyone around them. Most people that use the powers of the sage to perform cleansing rituals have to program their minds in advance with the intentions of clearing and  and improving their energy within the area they are saging.

Benefits of saging:

Some of the benefits of saging include but are not limited to:

  • – Increase in positive energy
  • – Feeling of Lightness
  • – Decrease in tension
  • – Positive thoughts & emotions
  • – Positive flow of energy
  • – Reduction in stress
  • – The ability to clear one’s mind
  • – Opening paths to accept new opportunities in life
  • – Increased physical strength
  • – Decrease in fatigue
  • – Removal of Black magic from someone’s home, relationship and/ or – business
  • – Improved intimacy

The Saging ritual allows a person to have a fresh start and enter a new chapter in life. Along with my services of home and business clearingfull mind body and soul healingaura and chakra balancing a new start in life is now easily attainable. Please feel free to reach out to me with any additional questions you may have on the process of and benefits of saging. Contact me to schedule your free consultation.

Why is it hard to recover from a painful breakup or loss?

Most healthy relationships begins with two individuals who find fondness in each other and form some sort of bond or connection over a shared interest and/ or common life goal. These individuals will then grow to enjoy each other’s company and develop a bond. Many firsts will come along, such as first touch, first kiss and first date. During the initial stage of a relationship is where couples share their interests and explore together.

The relationship then grows as the couple begins to get comfortable with one another. Going on trips together, sharing a bed, allowing oneself to be vulnerable in front of the other person and meeting important people in the other person’s life (such as family members and close friends). Relationships also turn into life time commitments that people make to one another when buying homes together, getting married and ultimately having children together. Those are all the steps and the making of a growing relationship. As the couple in the relationship invest more time and emotion into their relationship they strengthen their spiritual cords and become inseparable. People often get too comfortable with someone and forget how life was before that person came into their lives. Even a few months can have an everlasting effect on someone due to the time invested into the relationship.

For this reason the universe disabled humans ability from remembering their previous incarnation (past lives) that includes past relationships. Relationships often stay stuck in our chakras and auras and there is a cord of attachment that binds the two souls together for eternity.

Unfortunately many relationships come to an end. There can be many reasons why a relationship would end. Some relationships end on good terms, some not. People sometimes discover later on in life that the life path they have chosen for themselves no longer makes them happy,  they discover that their significant other is cheating on them, or they simply don’t want to live with the person they married anymore. Every situation is different and every person’s heartache following a breakup or a separation is going to differ.  Either way, there is always baggage that follows a person when they end a relationship.

So why is it so hard for some people to move on following a breakup or a loss of someone they loved? There are many reasons why. Environmental triggers is one of the reasons. Something as  simple as a smell of a familiar perfume, or the sight of favorite restaurant that was a frequent venue for date night can bring feelings of pain, regret, resentment, and nostalgia. Perhaps during your past relationship going to the movies was a passion you shared with your ex and now you can’t bring yourself to step a foot in a movie theatre because of all the memories that took place there.

Another reason why it is so hard to move on following a breakup or a loss could be attending life events that represented or would have taken place in your relationship such as weddings, the birth of a new baby, an engagement of a family member or a close friend. More often than not, seeing a loved one go through a changing life event that you struggled to get to in your own relationship triggers a lot of negative emotions and feelings towards the person you had the relationship with, hence making it hard for you to get over the relationship.

Sometimes it is people around you that make it hard for you to forget or get over a relationship. Perhaps you were dating a person who came highly recommended by a family member or a close friend. If the relationship fails after a period of time, the person or people who initiated the relationship are likely to bring it up everytime they see you to try to change your mind and maybe pressure you into giving the person a second chance. Perhaps your close family friends have a child who they always thought you are destined to get married to in order to form a bond between two families, yet your relationship failed and you are now stuck with handling the drama that follows every time you are in contact with anyone from your family.

The feeling of  comfort and belonging is perhaps the biggest cause of pain following a relationship breakup. Especially when the couple in the relationship become codependent on each other. The sense of coming home to a familiar routine, a familiar person and a familiar home gives a person a sense of comfort. Leaving your comfort zone is very hard and often leads to couples toughing it out from the fear of change. Learning to live life without your partner can be tough and emotionally draining. Perhaps your partner was responsible for all household chores or handling all the finances in the relationship. Having that fear of “what now?” can have a huge emotional drainage on a person following a breakup and can make getting over the person very hard. People contemplate at that point if leaving the person was the right thing to do, as the saying goes “distance makes the heart go fonder”.

These are just a few of the reasons as to why it is so hard for some people to recover from breakups and losses in relationships. When it comes to a point where you cannot get over your past relationship and you dwell on the past for a prolonged period of time, your intense feelings can turn into an obsession. At that point you need a lot of guidance and support to get your life back on track and cut or heal your cord of attachment from your painful breakup in order to set a path for you to be able to form new healthy relationships with no emotional baggage from previous relationships.

So how can I help you? I can help you cut your cords of attachments and heal your auric field from all negativity that any previous relationship has left on you. With my guidance and life coaching services I can bring you back to a life filled with hope and success with any future relationships.  I will be with you every step of the way and I will ensure you reach your full potential.

Why is it so hard to change your life?

One of the hardest things for most of my clients who come to me has been to change their life. Achieving change feels impossible when you have lived a certain way for a long time and then decided you no longer like it.

There are many reasons why change is hard. People in general don’t like change, if you look at your life today you will notice that you have a certain type of wardrobe, eat certain type of food, surround yourself with certain type of friends or lovers, and work in a certain type of field. Everything in your life that surrounds you has been done by you and oftentimes changing everything requires a lot work.

There are also many habits, routines and things that people have or do that are not even noticeable, but cause you to be a certain way such as dating, smoking, exercising, reading, types of activities you like and even the types of shows you watch on television. Everything around you, from the design of your house, the type of artwork on your walls, the music you like to listen to, is an expression of you.

The things I have described above don’t include the hardships in your life, that are current or from your past. Traumatizing life changing events such as divorce, a death, an illness, or monetary loss ect.. that occur in your life, can cause you to have emotional pains and create energetic blockages, especially when you decide you want to change your life.

All these things that I have mentioned above make it incredibly hard for a person to change or transform their situation in life, but it is not impossible. I have guided many people to change their life and have succeeded in transforming the entire life of many. I do offer life coaching services  that include spiritual healing of the aura and chakra balancing as well as one on one coaching to help you with these types of drastic changes, and many times can recommend the proper steps needed in order to transform everything in your life.

The first steps one must take is to be honest with yourself and accept all your strengths and weaknesses. It is also important to be prepared to come out of your comfort zone. What that means is, the things that are hardest for you to do, you will be required to do it no matter how it makes you feel in the moment. If you are ready to transform your life and want a free consultation, feel free to contact me.